|Given birth? Have a cocktail!|
No matter what kind of gathering one attends - book club, dinner party, Soulcycle class - if a group of Mothers are involved, the conversation will inevitably lead to graphic stories about labor and delivery. Once you have given birth to a human, it is practically impossible to not discuss all the gory details of just how, exactly, your children made their exits from your body.
Personally, I love hearing other women's birth stories. Mainly because it's nice to know that I'm not the only woman who has pooped on the delivery room table.
The Natural Birther
Organic, small-batch vodka with pure cranberry juice and a splash of artisanal unfiltered honeyYou had a natural birth using self-hypnosis. You enjoy telling people that it was a truly transformative experience. You think that everyone should have the birth they want and you claim to be totally supportive of other birth choices, but you carry around DVD copies of The Business of Being Born and hand them out to unsuspecting pregnant women. You may have given birth at home in your backyard under a lemon tree while flower petals rained down on you in your blow-up birthing tub. The soundtrack to your birth featured a Buddhist monk that your partner recorded in Tibet. You are thinking of possibly becoming a doula, but not until you wean your child at around age five.
The Epidural Encourager
Double Knob Creek, with one (very small) ice cubeYou were all about the drugs. In fact, you asked your OB to give you an epidural when your child was still technically a zygote. You think it is some bullshit to want to feel the pain of childbirth and that only some crazy person who eats bark and doesn't shave would opt for a natural birth. You drove straight to the hospital the minute you felt even a twinge of pain and you refused to leave until they gave you some mother f*cking drugs and sent you home with a baby. You didn't want to feel anything until at least a month after giving birth and you tell every woman you know to get the drugs. Also, you brought some drugs tonight if anyone is interested in really getting this
The C-section Pusher
A crisp Pinot Grigio with a smooth finishYou've had three cesareans and you can't fathom why anyone would want to push a child out of her vagina. You don't pee yourself when you laugh/cough/sneeze and you remind your friends who had vaginal births of this fact. You don't understand why someone would wait for their child to decide when she arrives when you can schedule a c-section so that it doesn't interfere with your busy social life. You get slightly hysterical after two rounds and start screaming "cesarean birth is real birth!" despite the fact that no one claimed otherwise.
The Double Dipper
A rum and coke followed by a glass of sulfate free red wineYou've done it both ways and you don't understand what the big deal is. Natural, epidural, c-section, the point is to just get the kid out so that you can go back to living your best life. You're chill and you're up for anything and think that everyone should just do what's best for them. You'd be fine squatting down and giving birth in a field, but you also really enjoyed the drugs they gave you at the hospital. You step in to referee the crazy natural birth lady who is currently trying to strangle the epidural lady with some sort of hemp rope, because you came to this book club to actually talk about the book.
Cheers to however your birth story ends. I can't wait to hear all about it the next time we run into each other at the dry cleaners.