Tuesday, September 9, 2014
Monday on Tuesday
I'm running a day behind, as per the usual. If you're a loyal follower/stalker of the Misadventures on Facebook or Instagram, then you might have noticed the photos of my Monday morning routine that I shared yesterday. I had every intention of publishing a companion piece here on the ol' blog, but time got away from me what with my return from Las Vegas and the whole having two kids under two and no childcare thing. So I'd love it if you would humor me and pretend that today is Monday and that I'm actually getting sh*t done on time. Because only in my fantasy world does that happen.
But I digress.
Several months ago I found out that I was randomly selected to participate in the amazing "Monday Mornings" series that's been going on over at Mommy Shorts. The chief Mommy over there, Ilana Wiles, is pretty much my blogging idol, which means that I make sure never to miss one of her posts. When she put out the word that she was looking for Mommas who wanted to have their morning routines photographed by the amazing and wonderful Raquel Bianca, I threw my hat in the ring. I figured it was a major long shot. I mean, what would people find interesting about the life of a stay-at-home Mom living quite possibly the most unglamorous life to be found in the City of Angels? When I received the email that I'd been chosen to participate, I started to panic.
Here's a condensed version of my thought process:
I look horrible in the morning. I need to do some research on how dangerous it is to get Botox while nine months pregnant.
My house is a dump. I wish I had the money to buy new dining room chairs and living room shades. And when people see my bedroom they'll be shocked that anyone got pregnant in such an unattractive space.
I'll still be carrying around my baby weight and bleeding from my lady parts when she comes to photograph us. WHAT WAS I THINKING?!
Somehow, I managed to get my anxiety under control (despite the fact that I was unable to pop a Xanax), and I agreed to let Raquel come and photograph our family.
You guys, I am so glad I did.
What a gift, to have these photographs. The kids are growing so fast - the Lady Bug looks completely different now than she did even those few weeks ago - and to have this photographic time capsule of our lives right now is incredible.
Perhaps the even greater gift has been the response I've received from other Mommas thanking me for my honesty about not being able to do it all.
Thank you for sharing my morning.
Thank you for making me feel less alone.
Thank you for not telling me I need Botox (even if you think I do.)